úterý 28. října 2008

Relationships

I am sometimes thinking about relationships between men and women. People are often searching for happiness in love. They are often disappointed then. Sometimes people want to give to the second one everything. They change their life style and subordinate to the second one to make him/her happy. But I don't think this is right. I don't think that we once fall in love and everything will be all right since then. I think there is only one stable source of happiness and certainty and that is somewhere inside us. We will never be happy with someone since we learn to be happy although we are without a partner. When we once find this source, we become independent of the second one.
I once read somewhere that the sense of relationships is that both partners have to find a way back to each other again and again. I agree with this. I think relationships force us to give the best from us. It is not easy to stay with one man/woman for the rest of life. People are changing, relationships are changing. I think that to love someone and at the same time to stay innerly independent requires a lot from us. To fall in love once and to go through the ideal relationship without any problems wouldn't have any sense for me. It wouldn't force me anyhow to be a better person.

úterý 21. října 2008

Travelling

Hello.
My nickname is namg and this is something like my homework. I am a girl living in the Czech Republic. I am sorry for my English. I am still studying this language so you will probably find here a lot of grammar and vocabulary mistakes.

One of my dreams is to travel. I would like to visit countries which are different from the European countries. I would like to come to know different attitudes towards life, different opinions and expectations and compare it with my view of life. People say that reading can enrich our lives. That we can learn from the stories. I agree with that. I think that travelling is a bit like reading. That each country is a new book and everything inside that country is one of its many chapters. I think a person who travels a lot knows himself/herself better than a person who lives whole his/her life at one place. Maybe it is because a person who travels meets much more people who differs a lot from himself/herself. We learn about ourselves by comparing with others. If this person has much more models to compare with he/she can learn about himself/herself better.These are reasons why I think travelling is important. But it does not have to be important for everyone. Some people live whole their lives at one place and still they can be happy.